Authentic Me

Ten years, 120 months, 522 weeks and 3,652 days. That is how long it has taken me to stop grieving the life I thought I would have. I thought of the five stages of grief - Denial, Anger, Depression, Bargaining, Acceptance - and then I realized that I was at an impasse.

As a medic who served in wartime, my experience with a veteran’s hospital was jaded. I’d heard horror stories about the lack of knowledge from civilian administrators.

I am ashamed to admit that I did not know God until I knew God. I remember my mother teaching me to say the Lord’s Prayer when I was a...