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I Have Sarcoidosis, But Sarcoidosis Doesn’t Have Me
With the start of each New Year, I am in planning mode. I am working to lock down a second Pride event for June and in doing so, it...
Jan 31, 20245 min read
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The Lesbian Girl Code, Part 2: The Pitfalls of Playing House
I’m overwhelmed with sadness when I think about my unmarried friends who are grieving over the end of long-term relationships. They’re...
Dec 5, 20234 min read
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The Lesbian Girl Code
Just when I thought it was safe to come up for air and believe in common decency again, reality jolted me right back to the here and now....
Dec 2, 20234 min read
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Hypocrisy and Homophobia: The Toxic Relationship between the LGBTQIA Community and the Black Church
The hypocrisy and homophobia in the black church are baffling to me. These are dirty little secrets that are often overlooked by...
Nov 24, 20233 min read
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Becoming My Mother
One of the fondest memories I have of my mother was when I was about five years-old. I watched her juggle her books in her arms as she...
Nov 21, 20234 min read
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BUT GOD, Part 2: Surrendering to His Will
As the Benadryl dripped into my veins, euphoria set in. My pupils widened as warmth flowed through my body. I felt as though I was...
Nov 18, 20234 min read
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My Alternative Lifestyle: But God
I am ashamed to admit that I did not know God until I knew God. I remember my mother teaching me to say the Lord’s Prayer when I was a...
Nov 15, 20233 min read
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My Alternative Lifestyle/The Journey of Love: Becoming the One
*I often find myself daydreaming about the smallest things. Like … the tenderness in her voice when she calls to ask if I’ve eaten … the...
Nov 11, 20233 min read
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How One Night in a Lap Dance Club Led to My Fascination with Strippers
I took my time applying my makeup that night. I settled on an accordion dress that swirled around my thighs with each step. My calves...
Nov 11, 20235 min read
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My Daughter-In Law is the Daughter I Never Had
Katie Dianne Spurlock’s reputation preceded her. While in high school, my son Kyle occasionally spoke of a young lady that all the boys...
Nov 10, 20234 min read
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The Loves I’ve Lost to AIDS
Every December 1st, I experience a sadness that makes me realize just how precious life is. As World AIDS Day approaches, I struggle as I...
Nov 7, 20233 min read
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Gay Pride During the Pandemic: My Unexpected Digital Media Celebration
This year marked the best celebration of Gay Pride I’ve experienced in 40 years of being an out lesbian. The month of June kicks off Gay...
Nov 7, 20234 min read
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