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I Saw the White Light of Death
A bright, white light some people see during near death experiences. My mind, body and soul are tired. Living with a chronic illness,...
Jul 94 min read
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I Have Sarcoidosis, But Sarcoidosis Doesn’t Have Me
With the start of each New Year, I am in planning mode. I am working to lock down a second Pride event for June and in doing so, it...
Jan 31, 20245 min read
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My Will To Live Was Slipping Away
Living with a chronic illness for which there is no cure takes a toll on your mind, body and spirit. After thirteen years of battling...
Dec 13, 20233 min read
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The Lesbian Girl Code, Part 2: The Pitfalls of Playing House
I’m overwhelmed with sadness when I think about my unmarried friends who are grieving over the end of long-term relationships. They’re...
Dec 5, 20234 min read
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Becoming My Mother
One of the fondest memories I have of my mother was when I was about five years-old. I watched her juggle her books in her arms as she...
Nov 21, 20234 min read
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BUT GOD, Part 2: Surrendering to His Will
As the Benadryl dripped into my veins, euphoria set in. My pupils widened as warmth flowed through my body. I felt as though I was...
Nov 18, 20234 min read
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My Alternative Lifestyle: But God
I am ashamed to admit that I did not know God until I knew God. I remember my mother teaching me to say the Lord’s Prayer when I was a...
Nov 15, 20233 min read
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My Alternative Lifestyle/The Journey of Love: Becoming the One
*I often find myself daydreaming about the smallest things. Like … the tenderness in her voice when she calls to ask if I’ve eaten … the...
Nov 11, 20233 min read
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How One Night in a Lap Dance Club Led to My Fascination with Strippers
I took my time applying my makeup that night. I settled on an accordion dress that swirled around my thighs with each step. My calves...
Nov 11, 20235 min read
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50IN50: LETTERS TO OUR SONS
My Dearest Son, My womb ached for you. In a world that diminished my existence, you were a seed that was never expected to grow. But you...
Nov 7, 20231 min read
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